The First Look - Quite The Moment and Worth Considering:
Hey there, lovebirds! It’s Rose, your go-to Celebrant for all things love, laughter, and happily-ever-after that look easy and feel great! As wedding trends go - the First Look - is a favourite with many couples. If you haven’t heard of it yet, buckle up, because this little nugget of pre-ceremony feels may just be the thang you didn’t know you needed!
What’s a First Look, Anyway?
Picture this: It’s just you and your soon-to-be-spouse on your wedding day, away from the hustle, bustle and intensity, at the venue, or on your way there. You see each other for the first time, in a private moment that’s all about the two of you. No distractions, no audience - just a pure, 'feels' moment. That, is the First Look. It’s a twist on tradition, you can finesse it to fit, and it can be a downright fabulous idea.
Why Couples Are Saying Yes to the First Look
Bye-Bye Nerves: Let’s face it - weddings can be an emotional Everest that needs pacing. A First Look can calm any pre-ceremony jitters, leaving you more relaxed and present for your I Do's.
Sweet Somethings: You’ve poured your heart into writing personalised lines you only want your lover to hear and this could be the perfect private moment to whisper your sweet nothings, before you speak your legal vows and other more public sentiments in front of your family and friends.
Photo Magic: Your photographer can spin photographic gold! The First Look offers a unique opportunity to capture raw, emotional shots without the pressure of a timeline.
More Time Together: Who wouldn’t want a few extra minutes with their soulmate on such a special day? It’s a chance to soak in the occasion, pinch yourselves and share a cheeky something, before sharing your love with the world.
Why Twist Tradition?
I get it - some couples worry about breaking the tradition of seeing each other for the first time at the aisle. But here’s the thing: a First Look doesn’t have to replace that aisle moment, it can enhance it! Trust me, the emotions will still hit you when you see each other again with family and friends excitedly looking on.
A Celebrant’s Insider Tips
Pick the Perfect Spot: Choose a location that’s meaningful to you - maybe the garden where you got engaged or a quiet corner of your venue.
Keep It Private: This is your moment. Keep it intimate and free from interruptions.
Be True to You: Whether you’re giggling, crying, or doing a happy dance, let the moment be 100% you!
My Final Thoughts
A First Look isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. Your wedding day should reflect your vibe, style, and story...and if after reading this, you've just fallen in love with the idea, I say go for it and let's talk about your First Look during planning! After all, your love is your trend and you should have your Day, your way.
Visit rosejonescelebrant.com to learn more about my services and ceremony packages, or reach out to start planning your Wedding Day. Your ceremony will full of heart-filled moments that look easy and feel great!
Rose x
feelings for life
Beautiful imagery of Sarah & Seb by Kinship by Kristy.
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